Here's from Brett's original:
I have a finite amount of time to volunteer in helping
make Python what it is. Having people push upon me that
they either think I am failing because I can't find a
solution to a problem (the "complainers") or that the
solution that I help create is not good even though it
has not been implemented and proven to be a failure (the
"what about this?" folks) just sucks away that much more
time, preventing me from helping make Python better for
YOU. It gets to the point that I sometimes wonder why I
put in so much time and effort when so many people gripe
about the volunteer work that I put in to produce this
thing that is given to the world for free.
And then Gustavo: I apologize, but I have a very hard time reading this and
not complaining.
...
I know this is just yet another complaint, though. I
honestly cannot fix the problem either, and rather just
talk about it in the hope that someone who’s able to do
it will take care of it.
Disgusting. Could you at least make an effort to convince the developer that they personally would benefit from the massive amount of work you are demanding of them, instead of just trying to bully them into it?More from Gustavo:
I can’t provide ideas or solutions.. I can’t fix the
problem.. they don’t even care about the problem. Why am
I using this thing at all?
Go a little farther: how does the developer benefit from your use of this software? If you can figure out how to answer this question in the positive, you've probably figured out a much better strategy for convincing others to solve your problems for you. If you can't, perhaps there is some other software that you could buy? If the developers don't care about the 'problem', maybe it's not their problem after all?