15 years ago, those relativizations wouldn't have been necessary. Sweden was a poster child of a good society and now it isn't. Many things in your country did deteriorate quickly over the last decade or so, no matter how you try to coat it.
"At least we're still better than others" is a pretty sad statement by itself when you realize that you could be doing a lot better.
My country is currently going down the same road and it's saddening to see that we didn't learn from your mistakes.