So imo we'd do well to have empathy towards their situation.
I assume there must be another reason than being exhausted.
When you aren't forced into the situation, say living in the countryside of a foreign country, or you aren't extremely studious its fairly natural to spend your down time with native speakers.
We chose to speak a language _native to none of us_ to be _inclusive to all_. Everybody speaks English to such an extent that it becomes the lingua france of students in Germany. I think students coming to the US should be able to use English, too. Especially given the TOFL/whatever language test you have to pass to be admitted.
Btw, a common story the exchange students tell is how stupid the other exchange students who only stay among themselves are.
From observation / interactions it is all about motivation -
You had a motivation to improve your English -
Some, (Big note: not all!!!) of these students really don't give a crap about living in really 'experiencing' their host country, they are there because it gives them a convenient checkbox to tick on their 'international' credentials, enough of $host_country_language to manage with basic business transactions, and a way to network with other rich people from their own country, so when they go back home after completing their degree, they have a network in-country for their careers, etc.. The foreign degree it's a status symbol, and that only. No one is going to know how many locals you knew, how many host-country cultural events you experienced, etc, only that you attended and graduated.
Some of these cultures are also internally elitist/narcissistic (e.g. our country is the best and other people are inferior), which while the same could be said of people not welcoming guest students, also can drive self-isolation; I am here only to look down my nose at you as some sort of specimen of curiosity while I obtain the credential which I will use at home in a nepotistic, insular way that you in your 'mere mortal', job-applying and needing-to-work-to-survive-way, will not. Being from the richest of the rich in countries with huge income inequality also facillitates this attitude.. Tell me that the kid in the article, some early 20's person, having the most expensive car in the entire city where his university is, doesn't create a hugely warped sense of self-importance.. why not 'capitalize' on that by being the coolest kid in your native circle than being the bizarre forigner that noone can relate to financially?
Socioeconomically, it is like the richest people from Harvard/Yale/Cambridge/Oxford, etc. deciding to move to a small town.. many wouldn't mingle with the locals other than as a curio, and this factor is made more complex by the cultural barriers, esp. in cultures which are more introverted - clashing with US culture and also being biased towards self-isolation
But you know what? I speak in it anyway. How else will I improve my language skills?
The other thing is, they're going to university in USA. Most of their studies will (likely) be in English, so by not picking up English, they are hurting not only their studies, but future career prospects.
Unless, of course, they also have Chinese employees, that only employ Chinese people, which does happen where I live (Australia).
The other foreign students would merrily mingle with the locals and other foreign students. Just the Chinese would stay in their bubble.
Studying in a foreign country is a luxury, not a right.
Sometimes I think that locals can do more to interact with them. Their presence is also our opportunity to learn from them. There's a lot of prejudice (Chinese people cheat for example) which surprise surprise, if you mingle more, you'll realise it's as stupid as saying white people like to party all the time.
Ultimately we group together to feel safer. If you approach one with a friendly face, you're likely to be received with appreciation and intrigue. If not...well what exactly have you got to lose? Don't let bad experience shape your prejudice though.
Is this really that abnormal? That when exposed to a foreign environment and probably not very good at the language, people just turn to other people that is facing/faced the similar situation before for ... help and support?
When I was a student, I wanted to hang out with the locals' as well, but the cultural difference is pretty obvious: I don't really like partying, couldn't drink too much, grown up with very different music, and often time I didn't get other people's jokes that I felt like an idiot. And since my family paid premium to send me here, I spent most of the time in library studying, by myself or with other Chinese students, just like I did back in college, leaving little time for culture immersion.
So maybe the problem should be, the school should call more people to participate in STEM classes? Or force a diverse study group, that worked well for some of my classes, and I have a good time collaborating with my teammates.
> It wouldn't be so bad if it didn't mean effectively cutting in half the fellow students you can turn to for support in a class.
They don't owe you anything.
I don't it's prime facie factual that that admitting fewer foreign students is necessarily a good thing for domestic students.
https://www.technologyreview.com/s/538111/why-and-how-baidu-...
If it is the demand drives up the tuition cost for those non-profit universities, then why not build some for-profit universities here to cater the additional demand?(such as Trump University, or University of Phoenix)
Or perhaps we could further refine that "love for money" as "beyond necessity" and "within necessity"...but the problem is very difficult for an external observer to tell where the boundary lies for a particular entity -- although that boundary does exist in many cases...
Another one is that "non-profits" (in the tax-code sense) are actually allowed to make a profit (both in the accountants' sense of the word, and the ordinary sense). Hospital systems, for example, often make huge profits, while hiding behind a non-profit status that they've inherited from the bunch of actually-charitable nuns who started running the hospital 150 years ago.
I'm going to need citation a citation for >50% Chinese