Alienation 101: On Chinese Students in the American Midwest
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So imo we'd do well to have empathy towards their situation.
I assume there must be another reason than being exhausted.
When you aren't forced into the situation, say living in the countryside of a foreign country, or you aren't extremely studious its fairly natural to spend your down time with native speakers.
We chose to speak a language _native to none of us_ to be _inclusive to all_. Everybody speaks English to such an extent that it becomes the lingua france of students in Germany. I think students coming to the US should be able to use English, too. Especially given the TOFL/whatever language test you have to pass to be admitted.
Btw, a common story the exchange students tell is how stupid the other exchange students who only stay among themselves are.
From observation / interactions it is all about motivation -
You had a motivation to improve your English -
Some, (Big note: not all!!!) of these students really don't give a crap about living in really 'experiencing' their host country, they are there because it gives them a convenient checkbox to tick on their 'international' credentials, enough of $host_country_language to manage with basic business transactions, and a way to network with other rich people from their own country, so when they go back home after completing their degree, they have a network in-country for their careers, etc.. The foreign degree it's a status symbol, and that only. No one is going to know how many locals you knew, how many host-country cultural events you experienced, etc, only that you attended and graduated.
Some of these cultures are also internally elitist/narcissistic (e.g. our country is the best and other people are inferior), which while the same could be said of people not welcoming guest students, also can drive self-isolation; I am here only to look down my nose at you as some sort of specimen of curiosity while I obtain the credential which I will use at home in a nepotistic, insular way that you in your 'mere mortal', job-applying and needing-to-work-to-survive-way, will not. Being from the richest of the rich in countries with huge income inequality also facillitates this attitude.. Tell me that the kid in the article, some early 20's person, having the most expensive car in the entire city where his university is, doesn't create a hugely warped sense of self-importance.. why not 'capitalize' on that by being the coolest kid in your native circle than being the bizarre forigner that noone can relate to financially?
Socioeconomically, it is like the richest people from Harvard/Yale/Cambridge/Oxford, etc. deciding to move to a small town.. many wouldn't mingle with the locals other than as a curio, and this factor is made more complex by the cultural barriers, esp. in cultures which are more introverted - clashing with US culture and also being biased towards self-isolation
The other foreign students would merrily mingle with the locals and other foreign students. Just the Chinese would stay in their bubble.
But you know what? I speak in it anyway. How else will I improve my language skills?
The other thing is, they're going to university in USA. Most of their studies will (likely) be in English, so by not picking up English, they are hurting not only their studies, but future career prospects.
Unless, of course, they also have Chinese employees, that only employ Chinese people, which does happen where I live (Australia).
Studying in a foreign country is a luxury, not a right.
Sometimes I think that locals can do more to interact with them. Their presence is also our opportunity to learn from them. There's a lot of prejudice (Chinese people cheat for example) which surprise surprise, if you mingle more, you'll realise it's as stupid as saying white people like to party all the time.
Ultimately we group together to feel safer. If you approach one with a friendly face, you're likely to be received with appreciation and intrigue. If not...well what exactly have you got to lose? Don't let bad experience shape your prejudice though.
Is this really that abnormal? That when exposed to a foreign environment and probably not very good at the language, people just turn to other people that is facing/faced the similar situation before for ... help and support?
When I was a student, I wanted to hang out with the locals' as well, but the cultural difference is pretty obvious: I don't really like partying, couldn't drink too much, grown up with very different music, and often time I didn't get other people's jokes that I felt like an idiot. And since my family paid premium to send me here, I spent most of the time in library studying, by myself or with other Chinese students, just like I did back in college, leaving little time for culture immersion.
So maybe the problem should be, the school should call more people to participate in STEM classes? Or force a diverse study group, that worked well for some of my classes, and I have a good time collaborating with my teammates.
> It wouldn't be so bad if it didn't mean effectively cutting in half the fellow students you can turn to for support in a class.
They don't owe you anything.
I don't it's prime facie factual that that admitting fewer foreign students is necessarily a good thing for domestic students.
https://www.technologyreview.com/s/538111/why-and-how-baidu-...
If it is the demand drives up the tuition cost for those non-profit universities, then why not build some for-profit universities here to cater the additional demand?(such as Trump University, or University of Phoenix)
Or perhaps we could further refine that "love for money" as "beyond necessity" and "within necessity"...but the problem is very difficult for an external observer to tell where the boundary lies for a particular entity -- although that boundary does exist in many cases...
Another one is that "non-profits" (in the tax-code sense) are actually allowed to make a profit (both in the accountants' sense of the word, and the ordinary sense). Hospital systems, for example, often make huge profits, while hiding behind a non-profit status that they've inherited from the bunch of actually-charitable nuns who started running the hospital 150 years ago.
I'm going to need citation a citation for >50% Chinese
I recently thought to myself how lucky I was that, being a 6'3" guy who speaks Mandarin, what a great position I'm in to make lots of money in the coming decades. I always thought the Chinese loved American culture, so me being American would make it easier to sell to China. Look everyone, I'm so westernized! What a disappointment to read that the Chinese government wants none of that cultural influence. I mean, I understand their point of view, but damn, there goes my 'easy' money.
I've always grown up self conscious about my Asian-ness, as if I am a second class citizen. I've always avoided hanging out with other Asian-looking people.
Great, now I have to worry about this new stereotype too.
Alternatively, you can help represent Chinese firms to Americans, considering you are one of the few Americans who speak Mandarin, and understand the nuances of how Asians are perceived in US, which Chinese firms don't have a clear understanding of.
I'm currently learning Mandarin, mostly for fun, but I do have this fantasy that it will make me more employable in future (currently an anglo-australian monoglot).
Of course it's total fantasy, because if you want someone technical who speaks both languages, you just hire a Chinese expat, who not only speaks both English and $chinese, but also understands China far, far better than I ever could. And if you're wanting someone who can speak the language, a deep understanding of the culture is obviously also desirable.
So the only reason that you feel "lucky" to speak Mandarin is so you can make "easy" money? Your purposefully don't associate with Asian people?
Don't "worry" about some stereotype or your "Asian-ness", but develop some god-damn pride in who you are.
It's not about ethnicity, it's about culture.
People who have grown up in China (in my experience) have a completely different mindset. Speaking about something as simple as freedom of speech, or the concept of citizenship through naturalization, or the idea that a poor nation (America) prospers with liberty rather than having to grow before they can have it (the actual excuse the party gives for what we consider tyranny), could be difficult with some people fresh out of China.
I have had long conversations with people who have grown up in China about things like The Party silencing (often imprisoning) dissenters, and controlling Chinese nationals even when they are abroad; typically they will justify the actions of The Party by saying that the Chinese people need to be controlled right now because they're not rich/developed enough yet, and that liberty will come later. When I say that the United States started with squalor and deliberate liberty, then developed into a nation which is stronger than China with a fraction of the population, it falls on deaf ears.
Ethnicity is culture. (That is, ethnicity is the state of belonging to a group with a shared cultural identity.)
Those rich kids driving luxury cars in the US would be driving the same brands in China; the ruling class doesn't have much of a sense of modesty that would speak against flaunting their wealth in this way.
But the American kids only know how to deal with foreigners admiring the American way and looking to assimilate into American culture, plus, catering to foreigners is not really in the dictionary of the mightiest country.
Talk about expectation mismatch.
[1] http://www.abc.net.au/news/2017-06-04/the-chinese-communist-...
[2] http://www.abc.net.au/4corners/stories/2017/06/05/4678871.ht...
Self reliance is a good skill to learn. A University gives you a framework, an education as well as space to figure that out. Those who cheat only cheat themselves in the long run. Those who find competition unfair only cheat themselves as well. Education is not zero sum. In addition you should strive to become an informed citizen and increasingly today a citizen of the world.
Not everyone will do this and that's ok. Some will, some won't and some of them will change the world.
Sorry, no I don't.