I can't speak for appaters, but for me it's not a fear of appearing weak, but a fear of the power we give government.
>...the pervasive hand of the government...
This is partially what scares me. You mention that our "pervasive" government "has a place in a healthy technologically oriented society" and I agree, but I believe that it is possible to have a government that provides the services we need while have very limited powers.
As it stands most of the gross injustices that are done to the people by large corporations only happen because they have enshrined themselves in the institutions of government so as to give themselves special privileges (local monopolies, anti-competitive practices, etc).
>But it must be a place of transparency and low-corruption in order for our institutions to be trusted.
My ideal government would be afraid of its own people, that way we would not have to trust the government at all, but rather simply get rid of the institutions that did not perform their duties.
Transparency is very important and, as I'm sure many people here understand, as the complexity of a system increases the internal workings become more and more opaque.