Not really. Social charm is often the necessary bit of lubricant needed to get a conversation going.
Think of it this way... It can be an excuse to make a pitch, which sucks. Everyone knows the charm was just a ruse.
Or, if your team has a genuine interest in the field, that charm isn't a ruse. It's genuine and earnest interest. It's the piece that can get the real convo started.
The difference is, after a time and maybe some business done, whether real understanding and a shared, common interest in success exists.
Where it does, everyone will have improved and that network of people has value. Becomes a center of gravity, attracting others.
Where it does not, it's just a deal, and maybe it was worth it, maybe not. But nobody is invested on a personal level. There is no real understanding.
With the former, it's common to check in, exchange news, share success, failure, introduce new people, etc...
With the latter, it's extremely common to only talk when needed, as it's just noise otherwise.
Truth is, for a given niche, there are always interesting people who care about it. You want to be and cone to know those people because they are where all the real action is.
Circle back to the bullshit way in.
Having the goal I put here means that conversation is extremely likely to have enough value to warrant the effort needed to start it.