I understand if the way prettier formats your code is not the way you would like, and is more of a hindrance than helpful. But I hope the above gif shows why it is freeing for a lot of people.
Also, note that prettier does keep the original blank lines in your code. That's where most of the rhythm comes from, and we allows authors to group code however they want. The rest of it is basically choosing whether to insert a space here or there or not.
I respect your work, antirez, and I hope you at least try it once! It's totally fine if it's not useful for you though.
Second, there's what I'd call the "Mark Zuckerberg clothing" reason. When asked why he always wears the same style clothes, he said, "I really want to clear my life to make it so that I have to make as few decisions as possible about anything except how to best serve this community." Similarly, code formatting doesn't deliver value to customers/users. The more you can ignore it, the more you can focus on other things. When I first started using code formatters, they irked me greatly. But once you get used to them as a part of your process and start to feel comfortable reading the code they spit out, they transition to being liberating. The formatting fades into the background and all you see is the logic in the code. And I didn't realize just how much time I was spending getting indentation levels correct and aligning things until I entirely stopped doing those things. Now I write code that looks really ugly until I hit save and then it looks exactly the way that the rest of my code looks.
Also: my code formatting has always been a bit unusual, in that I never put spaces in. Compared to what most people do, this is easier to type, because it doesn't require pressing the space bar as much. So code formatters are good for me, because I can keep not pressing space, and now nobody need ever know.
But, guess what: this means code formatters are good for you too. Because now you don't have to press space either.
Using a tool like this you all share the same rhythm. No ones feelings get hurt, onboarding is simpler, code is easier to read.
I know, many people can't stand significant white space... The idea sounded weird for me too but after trying it for awhile I was hooked.