Even that's not really a fair comparison. I would be willing to live in an efficiency to save an extra 10k / year because a 1000 sq ft apartment is not inherently worth that much to me. I have a 1br apartment because the cost difference is tiny, and efficiency's are hard to find. Further, I flat out don't want a 2500 sq ft house, but for those people who want that much space sure it's a different cost / benefit comparison.
A fair comparison is based on similar levels of someones personal utility function. If they like green carpets slightly more and they own their house they might get green carpets, but it's not really a large benefit to home ownership for them.
In the end of the day more people live in NYC metro area than live in New Mexico, Nebraska, West Virginia, Idaho, Hawaii, New Hampshire, Maine, Rhode Island, Montana, Delaware, South Dakota, North Dakota, Alaska, District of Columbia, Vermont, and Wyoming combined. Largely because they think it's a better tradeoff.