my oldest is in 2nd grade Success Academy in brooklyn, they actually do lottery ( there is even a documentary about them on Netflix called the lottery)
in my view there is only one thing that allow kids to do well in school and that is parents who care.
once my son reaches 4th or 5th we are going to send him to a private school, cause thats when it starts to matter if they want to go the educational route.
to be honest though short of getting the most fundamental skills like reading and math and music i am kind of hoping he will just educate himself with things he care about his whole life.
there is something not very futureproof of sending your kid into an educational system that teaches everyone the same while expecing them to stand out.
i managed to do quite well for myself and i am mostly autodidact, but its hard to know if i was just lucky.
bottom line is you cant make the right decisions for your kids.