Yeah, I feel you. I found kubernetes very hard to learn as well. I wanted was to find a good tool to run a SaaS (to handle 10k users). Only after reading up a lot did I even realize that this was not for me. I had fallen into the Hackernews hype trap and thought kubernetes is the right tool for me. I am back to my simple docker based deploys in 5 EC2 instances. It's very much by hand but works with some simple instructions to follow on a wiki page.

I have also found kubernetes labor hard to find. The ones I found were way too expensive for me (upwards of 150k USD).