I can respect that.
It sounds like you actually were promoted a couple of times since relocating and now you're in a leadership/director position. I'm not surprised your salary increased.
But honestly, I find it hard to believe you can match a senior level salary here in the Bay Area at a larger company.
A standard offer for someone that is not really "gifted" is $160-$190k base + $100-$150k/yr RSUs.
You're really able to pay people over $250k?
And I'm not even including 401k matching, ESPP, healthcare, discretionary bonuses and annual incentive bonuses.