What about http://www.roguebasin.com/index.php?title=Main_Page ?
That doesn't get me out of my language/framework paralysis, but otherwise it looks like a decent roadmap.
Thanks mate. Also your game is amazing; thanks for sharing it.
Just those could get you to step 7. Then take stock and decide whether you want to restart the project in a framework or push on.
I imagine I just need to dive in and figure it out rather than stalling and posturing. Thanks.