I used to live about 1/4 mile away from any other houses, and I never got why people always complained about wifi.
In my experience it always worked well, was fairly fullproof, and had fast enough speeds that it was never an issue.
2 years ago I moved into a condo that has 25 wifi APs within range of me right now. Now I get it.
Getting one of the high-end tri-band routers as you said did help, but it's still a difficult experience.