I splurged on one of the expensive tri-band routers and honestly now the wireless is good enough that I don't care.
In my experience it always worked well, was fairly fullproof, and had fast enough speeds that it was never an issue.
2 years ago I moved into a condo that has 25 wifi APs within range of me right now. Now I get it.
Getting one of the high-end tri-band routers as you said did help, but it's still a difficult experience.
But just the fact that the higher end routers handle the extra congestion much better was more the point.
I bought this one: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0167HG1V6