Actually, I read somewhere that Nikola Tesla actually lamented later in life that he didn't put any effort into dating. Tesla was very devoted to his work, but he wasn't a complete hermit like Isaac Newton; he was also a bit of a showman, doing elaborate public demonstrations with electricity.

That's not how you use languish.

Or dudes like my former manager, who would regularly take work with him on vacation, unpaid, not in a crunch or anything.