> ... is a privileged viewpoint, and offensive to me.
"Privileged"?
I'm not sure how or why you chose to take offense, but I'm surprised that anything about that was even slightly controversial.
> The author doesn't have to prove to your satisfaction that this happened to her to write this article
You're right, but that doesn't mean I have to believe what the author claims and doesn't mean I can't respond to it. The comment section doesn't exist to serve as an echo chamber.