Is there any way you can verify the authenticity of your story without losing your anonymity to the public? For example, would Susan be able to verify you as an ex-employee?
Or maybe they know her story all too well, and are angry to see it here. It's not like there's nobody from Uber on HN, I mean.
You do not need to suffer more indignity by "being outed."
Best of luck!
And reledi? Grow up man - give up on your "not all men" attitude - trying desperately to preserve your own dignity by failing to acknowledge that our industry treats women in ways with should shame all men, and that your "Holy Grail" tech employers like Uber are at the worst end of the bell curve - quite clearly run by reprehensible human beings from the top down - which filters all the way down the org chart. #deleteuber
I don't think I should feel shame because someone I had no control over, which incidentally had the same gender/skin color/nationality/ethnicity as me, did something wrong.
I don't think his eschatology was at all a part of his argument.
I meant that how you feel about being told you should feel shameful about being a male due to how other men sometimes act probably depends on how you react to being told that you're a sinful person who needs to redeem yourself because someone else ate an apple they weren't supposed to eat.
The "you" in my post weren't directed at him either, it was just a generic you. Damn, English is hard.
I have no idea, and to pretend otherwise is to fool myself in order to confirm my preconceived notions.
One person coming forward is not evidence. Evidence is when every single Uber engineer that I talk to, backs up these claims.
Don't focus on this one case. Focus on all the other women who are going to come forward in the next couple weeks.