Do you feel being fired and blacklisted is a worse consequence than suffered by people impacted by support of trump (and his people)?
That's just a silly line of reasoning
However incompetent I think he is, I doubt that was deliberate though, and is besides the point.
Every president will inevitably make military decisions that will lead to civilian casualties. It's never nice, and it's never "okay", but it's also extremely difficult to avoid, in a conflict.
Repealing ACA is purely political, with very real effects on tens of millions of Americans losing coverage, benefitting only rich people.
It's not an unavoidable side effect. Just fucking don't do it. Your comparison is ludicrous.
Your trying to claim your statement is equivalent to mine is silly.
Syria is a conflict zone where the government has lost control and the USA along with 50 countries from the NATO is trying to help get the situation back under control. Nobody involved there is actually intending to hurt any civilians. In fact, the USA pulling out would likely cause a lot more deaths. (I'd like to remind you of the syrian government attacking their own civilians with chemical weapons.) Further, under no other candidate would substantially less deaths happen in that area, and particularly with Pence being a noted hawk there'll likely be more involvement there than under Clinton.
PS: Bernie would've been the sane choice for your country. But hey, what can you do in a two party system.
There's a wide gulf between deaths caused despite one's best intentions, and deaths caused directly by one's intentions. I believe US laws put such deaths in two distinct categories.
E: I also answered the syria question in a post further up.