Now that you've conceded that any restrictions what so ever, are not in and of themselves equivalent to red lining, its fairly easy to see where your principle falls apart.
Most usage restrictions are not about limiting how you use your property, they are about how common property is used. It is just much more efficient and workable to encourage grouped rules based on usage expectations than any other option we've come up with.
In the AirBnB case there are all manner of common property issues that may come up. An obvious one off the top of my head is security key accessibility. In hotels it is very common to allow access to security keys to many many people, therefore hotels have the infrastructure to support removing/changing access frequently. Lots of multi-dwelling buildings do not have that infrastructure and do not need it for most usages that would be considered residential.
Another issue, that is literally impacting me right now, is expected use of pest control services and waste disposal. In my building someone is running a catering business out of his kitchen, against the rules of the association, the lease he has agreed to, and the laws of our city. But he is in his property so what is the issue? The higher usage levels lead to higher pest levels, the units nearest to him are dealing with unprecedented problems and we as the association are having to foot the bill for increased pest control services, and for more garbage pick up as he generates an outsized amount of waste.
Why aren't these individual property issues? Because pests don't observe property boundaries and the trash collection is common. Why don't we charge extra for these things to the individual unit? Because the law states that we can't for unmetered services (for private property rights preserving reasons) and it is infeasible to make trash individually serviced.
The principle is fairly easy to understand, when you live in a community there is a give and take between individual rights and responsibilities to the community. A robust system of regulations and the rule of law help to enforce those lines and the system needs to be actively shaped, monitored and embraced for it to work, with special emphasis placed on making sure the rights of the individual are impacted in as fair and moral ways as we can.