What alternative do you propose?
- Request-reply -- Acknowledge stuff. Especially when it's security relevant
- For security relevant stuff, don't just silently fail or fall back to some idiot default. Eg. say a command message for setting a password doesn't contain the password field -- then fail the request, don't assume an empty password.
(Ie. be liberal about what you accept but not too liberal)
It isn't difficult to be strict so being liberal is just asking for trouble uselessly.