The aggressiveness is unfortunate (and counterproductive), but comes from the understandable perspective that too much bad press could kill the language before it even gets off the ground.
The Rust thesis is: "You should care about all these things you don't currently care about, and Rust helps (makes) you care about them." In order to enjoy Rust, you need to thoroughly buy in to that idea. Any significant deviation from that thesis defeats the very purpose of the language.
But of course most people aren't going to buy in, because it's an idea predicated on making their lives harder (in the short term) than it currently is. Rustaceans believe the long term benefits are massive, but new users cannot possibly believe that except by taking it on faith. This creates a conflict. The Rustaceans need everyone to give the language faith over an extended period of time, and anyone giving up their faith after a short trial not only drops out of the ecosystem themselves, but possibly damages the faith of others. That's a huge problem, because Rustaceans are hoping their language will one day take over a significant portion of the systems/embedded development space. That can't happen if people sour on the language so quickly. So when Rustaceans see someone slam their language with giving it an "honest try," they get upset because the damage done is palpable.
Of course, that's the wrong strategy, as it just drives people further away from the language. The right approach is to be inhumanly kind and accepting so that the frustrations are counterbalanced by support. The good news is that the Rust community at large seems to be quite nice; it's just the angry ones that show up in blog comments.