As I understand it, all semver is trying to tell you is when backwards-compatible changes happen, and when backwards-incompatible changes happen.
If the project developer wants to add some sort of indication that "this package contains changes that are alpha quality, and may not respect semver for the next few releases" then that developer can append a pre-release identifer to the version, as described in the semver spec. Once that identifier goes away, the risk that a package violates semver should be gone, and you should be free to update based on the semver relation to the previous release.
Ultimately, it's up to the project to verify that their releases don't violate the semver spec by being diligent with respect to their public API. If you find that a project isn't disciplined in documenting API changes (semver or otherwise,) then coming upw ith new rules to convey the information they're already not conveying isn't going to help anything.