There are many variables, this is true and unfair of me. It was more to get into the mindset of someone else's thinking.

I have however had to work towards someone else's life (maybe not as extreme as a child) and would love nothing other than to serve humanity in a greater way.

I ask because I genuinely don't understand this thinking so thank you for taking the time to respond and not down voting into oblivion. People like you really are why I come to this site!

Not everyone has good parents. Some people need to still figure things out, even at age 30...