I don't know where you get your "ideas", but I never said or claimed any of these things.

Then again, those nurses really were into joking about and belittling of patients, especially "stupid" ones, tho they did it behind the patients' backs of course.

I'm still not sure to this day if all of the ICU nurses calling the deceased "exes" as in "ex-living" was some kind of crude humor or a coping mechanism. Anyway, when I got my first call to collect an "ex" for pathology, I remember being stumped.