OK, done with another round of wading through Facebook's privacy settings, etc. and fixing what Facebook did. This is getting annoying.
I agree it's hypocritical to post something on a Facebook wall and then complain if someone reads it; you post something, it's public to some extent, and you'd better be ready to face consequences of that. But this is an admitted bug that allows friends to see if you've visited a site without you having taken action other than visiting the site. That's just plain wrong.