Put another way, the real question is not are we causing it but can we slow or stop it by making changes. And the answer to that is undeniably yes.
As to the argument that the earth survived warm periods a thousand years ago so it's no big deal - are you kidding? There are billions more people alive today, and probably hundreds of millions in places that will be affected by sea level rise or droughts, not to mention the economic impact of other extreme weather events.