That's quite a straw man for someone who claims others are trying to derail a conversation.
> I'm explicitly advocating against this practice and in favor of using clear and precise language instead.
The language you're suggesting masks the problem.
It's nice that statisticians came up with a mathematical object that happens to have a politically charged name, but the conflation you're making is not an argument, and doesn't address the underlying (inherently political) problem.
> In precise terms, what do you think the problem is?
The precise problem is that things like skin color etc. often have strong predictive power. We've recognized this unfortunate fact -- and its societal implications -- and decided to create laws and social norms that regulate (either restrict or sometimes even require) the use of these properties in certain high-impact decisions.
Unfortunately, algorithms sometimes use these features to make decisions in settings where a typical human wouldn't (or might even get into legal hot water if they did).
Notice that an algorithm can exhibit this behavior without being (statistically) biased.
Now, perhaps you think this problem isn't actually a problem. And you can certainly make the argument that any form of vernacular-discrimination should be OK as long as it doesn't exhibit statistical bias. But that's a separate conversation, and you can't defend that position by playing with definitions. And if you're not making that argument, then it should be clear why vernacular-bias differs from statistical-bias.