If they are 18 and paying for their own service, then fine, that's another story.
But until then, I don't think it even matters. Seriously, I feel people without children just don't understand how parent's feel.
Honestly, I don't think it really matters if your citizens are OK with it or not. They are still citizens and you are responsible for them.
If they are politicians and have a say in the service, then fine, that's another story.
But until then, I don't think it even matters. Seriously, I feel people just don't understand how the government feels.
If you don't put children in situations to experiment and earn your trust, they will never learn.
And yes parents worry, that's normal. If you lose sleep over your kid being out having fun with friends, it's perfectly ok. It's feature of raising kids, not a bug.