I've personally burnt out a set of SSDs installed in a RAID-6. They lost no data and failed no writes, but they had become unusably slow -- less than a tenth of their original write speed.
We burned out the drives with a 800Mb/s sustained 24/7 write stream. In post-mortem I did the math and the consumer drives ran out of endurance in less than a month. We replaced the drives with enterprise drives which were expected to last at least 3 years.
Also, here's a really strange finding... TRIM doesn't matter as much as one would expect. Many TRIM implementations are buggy. If the SSD contains a reliable TRIM implementation, then you can 100% guarantee that it will also have internal "move stable bits around to level out the usage" code.