I'm just more interested in calling out drudgery, propaganda, forced fanaticism of boring topics, and adding color
I've learned that on this forum you need to sugarcoat it.
Adults call it "diplomacy". I'll leave it to you devise your own lexicon to refer to those that use the phrase (preferably with a sneer) "have to sugarcoat everything".
See also: "I'm just saying what everyone else is thinking."
There's plenty of room to be civil without 'sugarcoating'.