I'm sorry, who exactly is
us? I didn't realize that by becoming a programmer, I'm now morally responsible for the actions of every single programmer out there in the world. I didn't realize that i should now look in the mirror and blame myself because some guy I never met decided to follow his CEO's orders and implemented a backdoor in their product.
There is no us. There's just hundreds of thousands of individuals, each doing their own thing. Some are angels, some are assholes, and a lot are in the middle. If you think that getting 500,000 people to make a pinky promise to be good is going to prevent shit from happening, that's just delusional thinking. No matter what you or I do, there will always be some asshole Investor/CEO/PM/programmer out there who will screw over people's privacy in order to make money, and you guilt-tripping the other 499,999 programmers is not going to change that.
If we want to stop shit from happening, we need systems in place to do that. Either regulatory, certification or market-based systems that catch and punish bad actors. In the absence of such systems, expect dysfunctional outcomes regularly.