Echoing some of the other comments, guns as dangerous things are remarkably easy to use safely, e.g. compare ~600 fatal accidents/year and ~33,000 as I recall for cars (both, through quite a lot of effort, making large absolute drops over the last N decades while the population and number of them has significantly increased).
But to use an Internet of Shit device safely, well, I could do it, but I'd have to uncrate a firewall, freshen its software and get it to play nicely with my AT&T U-verse modem/firewall, freshen my knowledge of packet filtering, and then....
This is not my forte, and obviously impossible for the vast majority of people. Instead, to borrow a phrase from RMS/FSF, these defective by design devices need policing, perhaps at a pretty severe level (e.g. requiring stable responsible entities, which could be 3rd parties (should be, actually, since hardware companies are particularly notorious for bad software and security practices), requiring updating capabilities, ISP policing (https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=12772979), etc.), we need to generally improve the state of the art, etc. etc. etc.
To bring it back to the gun analogy, some basic human factors allowing the rigorous application of 4 rules (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jeff_Cooper#Firearms_safety) are all that's needed to keep them from causing unintentional harm (and teaching these isn't hard), just sitting in my holster this morning when I went shopping, mine wasn't going to do anything bad as long as I retained it from a bad actor trying to snatch it (and first he'd have to realize I was carrying it).
Whereas all it takes is plugging in an IoS device into the net, following the instructions provided for the consumer, for bad actors to compromise them and cause increasing chaos.
We're in for some interesting times; this furthers my determination to make sure I can be productive with my computer(s) without the net being available, and my recent and very much related to all this decision to not go "paperless" with all my utility etc. accounts.