I disagree. I want the property of 'absolute difference' between the two numbers. Getting that value is what I do when I make an assignment. Whether this value is cached or calculated is of little consequence to outside code provided it has no side effects on other state within the object. Should a method (member function, whatever) cause side effects within the target object, then the method has become a verb. Like, 'increase(by:)' - that's a verb, affects the state of the object ... well-named, friend.
Aside from that, I think the rest has embodied well Apple's talk about Swift API style from WWDC with a nice dose of input from this author.
Edited to add: 'getAverage()' shows up later. I fail to see how 'get' adds anything of importance considering its company 'reversed' and 'sorted' - they should all prefix with 'get' or they should not. I'm in the 'not' camp.