I get that your utility function from money is non-linear, but I would expect a more accurate model to be a step-function, with large steps at "out of debt", "can tell a bad boss sayonara", "can buy a house", "can pay for kids' college eduaction", and "never have to work again". Equity payouts from a typical startup exit often line up nicely with the middle three, and if you hit the Google/Facebook jackpot, sometimes the last.