I know this is hard to believe but there are actually groups of people who are worse than other groups of people.
I know, it boggles the mind sometimes.
Keeping this rule in mind will save you and everyone else in the discussions from a long, frustrating, pointless arguments from extremes and semantic nitpicking.
You can't change your skin color and is not responsible for it and should wear it proudly, but you can definitely fix your culture, AND THEN wear it proudly.