That's the problem with federated systems: we (users) have to rely on the promises and whims of our system operators to have access.
I don't trust or distrust you, I wish I didn't have to decide.
I don't trust or distrust you, I wish I didn't have to decide.
Unfortunately, the best alternative would probably be the P2P way, with something like https://matrix.org/ which also seems to be nice.