Touche. But at least in the U.S. dissenting from this point of view doesn't get you and your family thrown in a labor camp.
We don't need to get NK to love us. We just need to sow enough doubt in the Dangerous Fiction that launching a nuclear first strike is no longer seen within NK as a desirable (or even tenable) option.
Sensitivity would be an awareness of the tragedy the Florida nightclub attacks were to the vicitms, their families, and friends.
Reality would be recognising that that event in no way, shape, or form presented the least existential threat to the US itself, and that the ties of the madman involved to organised international terrorist groups are tenuous at best. And that armed toddlers and children present a far larger clear and present danger to the United States.