Yes and no. Yes it is an unreasonable standard of safety for cars (and maybe planes) today. No, it's unreasonable to allow things to blow up in close quarters like on a laptop.
Contrary to what Hollywood tells us, mopeds, bicycles, cars, trucks, motorcycles, and boats almost never explode (Airplanes occasionally explode. Rockets frequently explode.) They certainly don't explode as frequently as your average laptop battery.
That being said, while a car won't explode, they sure as hell do burn.