Check out Leo Brodie's "Thinking Forth"

I read both The Pragmatic Programmer and Code Complete (2ed) before Thinking Forth. The latter provides a wonderful software engineering foundation (in clearer, more concise language too).

Have you read Smalltalk Best Practice Patterns by Kent Beck? I'd throw it in that mix if you haven't. It and the Pragmatic Programmer are my two favorites. Code Complete is too verbose imho.