This is an oft-repeated criticism of Haskell which I frankly find has no basis. Firstly, symbols are preferred for these kinds of functions precisely because of their ubiquity. Once you're familiar with them (which you almost certainly will quickly become, for the common ones like `>>=`, and `< * >`) they make the code easier to read, not harder, in general. Few would complain about having to write "<" to compare two numbers in most languages, rather than, say, "lessThan", because it's all over the place, and having a symbol for it makes it easier for a developer to read. The same is true for many common combinators in Haskell. There is no "cult-like insistence" on them; it's simply the case that many Haskell developers find them more pleasant to write than named functions. Honestly, the comparison to brainfuck is completely unfounded, and the references to cults and religious fetishes are IMO unnecessarily derisive.
Furthermore, I'd add that what makes the symbols seem hard is not the fact that they're symbols, but that the ideas that they're representing are challenging when coming from the world of imperative programming. Using a named function like "bind" rather than ">>=" or "apply" rather than "< * >" is not going to help the fact that these functions are complicated and unintuitive to newcomers. I think a lot of the complaints about Haskell symbols, much like complaints about Haskell syntax, are more driven by how different Haskell semantics are to mainstream languages. Once a developer becomes comfortable with the "zen" of Haskell, these criticisms tend to melt away. That isn't to say that everything becomes easy: there are many concepts that one is only likely to encounter in Haskell, and they can often be challenging, or make someone else's code hard to grok. But the difficulty does not stem from the fact that they're written as symbols. IMO.
As for your comments on lenses and records, I've been writing Haskell for a good number of years and still haven't really spent the time to grok lenses. I think they're probably great, but certainly mastery of them is not required to be productive with the language.