I have tried yhat's rodeo and also yhat's port of ggplot for python but it just isn't there yet in my opinion.
I use both heavily in my daily work.
On the flip side, I've done a fair swath of work in the machine learning arena, and in particular the deep learning topics before it was called 'deep learning', and it was nearly hopeless to use anything except Python or MATLAB (both strongly tied in with C++/CUDA libaries). I think this is still largely the case.
As others have mentioned here, for me the biggest pull away from R was that it's not general purpose. Hard to ship someone R code. Hard to throw a web framework in front of your code. Hard to build a rich desktop GUI on top of it. I know you can do most of those things in R, but last time I dealt with it there was a massive ravine in usability/maturity. I'd also be insincere if I didn't admit that the pervasive R coding style just drove.me.fucking.crazy. That and I found that while there was a mindbogglingly large pile of libraries, documentations was usually very lacking.
/rant
ETL is just one step of the pipeline.