Rails on the other hand has tons and tons of books. I just started a little less than a year ago and I've caught up fast because of the plethora of books and communities for Rails.
in the end, if you happen to find your partner quick - they may help you choose (that's probably the best route)
Forgot to mention - check out some video tutorials of Rails programming:
http://rubyonrails.com/screencasts
http://peepcode.com (not free but really really good - they actually have 2 vids that covers all of the basics of Rails - in I think about 3-5 hours; you're not goign to remember all of it in the 1st run but it gets u comfy)
a decent list of resources
http://poignantguide.net/ruby/ -funny and useful intro into ruby itself