When people saying housing costs are out of control in California, really they mean the bay area. Every other part of the state is no worse than anywhere else.
Consider, for example, San Diego [2], which is considered the worst city for long term wealth accumulation in the entire USA.
1. http://www.trulia.com/home_prices/California/ 2. http://www.sandiegouniontribune.com/news/2015/oct/26/san-die...
Even in lower density places like Encinitas, Carlsbad, Buellton, San Luis Obispo, Paso Robles, Half Moon Bay ... Sebastopol.