True enough. But as I mentioned, I was rather terrified when I
tried this on my thinkpad laptop. I'm sure many other business laptops have similar facilities (and yes, of course it is a
feature to be able to manage a large fleet of machines, both work stations and servers).
As for trust, first, what we generally know is that any complex system is likely to have flaws. So any remote access system is likely a back door - intentionally or not. A physical off switch would be prudent (arguably switching off wireless network card and not connecting an ethernet cable is one option: but then your options are: no networking or possible vulnerability).
It's not as if any networked machine is "perfectly secure" - but it'd be nice to be able to set the scope of exposure even more easily, and granularly.
Second, one thing is trusting Intel to not intentionally install a back-door - keeping in mind that includes any "golden key" for updates. And not leaving any holes in the interface they expose (ie:getting the feature right). That in itself is a pretty high bar, imnho. But another thing is trusting Intel not to build in secret backdoors - that is; if they say, no, there's no IME in product X, then trust them on that. That is to me a much more trivial thing to trust. I know there will be bugs in the software and hardware, but I'm not all that afraid of maliciousness.
If I was working for a Chinese intelligence service the threat model might have been different.
In sum, given that there's bound to be bugs, and might be well-intentioned software upgrade support - I would prefer if it was easier to buy high-end parts without stuff like IME (this also applies to AMD btw) - or at least that it was easy to remove a jumper or toggle a dip switch to turn the stuff completely off.
[ed: finally re: server Vs laptop: there are some things that doesn't matter as much if it's exposed on a server: got my encrypted backups? Encrypted email? No problem. Got my secret key from my laptop? that is a problem]