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1. Women prefer to marry a guy who makes more money than her. So there is significant sexual pressure to become a high status ($) man.
2. Men (statistically) can't marry up large income gaps. So they know that what ever lifestyle they want, they have to be solely responsible for it.
Women on the other hand have more freedom to do what they desire since men care far less about their partners income, and women have the economic security of being able to marry a higher income partner.
Citation?
Which you presumably know as well, which is why you created a new, anonymous account rather than owning your words.
* Clinical psychology
* Veterinary medicine
* Biology
All of which are important, fulfilling, well-paying fields. In all of them it's hard to say women were "pushed" there, rather women were very interested in them, and arrived in larger numbers than men.
But if you'd like to claim those as important exceptions, you'd have to show that those fields are important and well-paying relative to other options available to those women.
I am not denying that, but I'm not seeing how it's connected to me telling the "OMG helping women is sexism" guy that there's a history here that he should pay attention to.
In particular, the historical comparator to nurses isn't software engineers, it's doctors. Take a look at the gender distribution of medical school graduates:
http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_otfwl2zc6Qc/SwyK7qFvLaI/AAAAAAAAL_...
You can see it take off with Title IX, which banned outright institutional discrimination by gender.
A lot of women with interest in and talent for medicine who wanted to become doctors instead became nurses, which fed that historical imbalance. We've fixed the schooling, but we're still working on the outcome; the gender distribution of doctors is still not great: 66% male in the US.
So when this guy whines that there are no organizations helping men become nurses, my reply is that the reason women have historically dominated that field is not anti-male barriers to dudes who really want to be nurses, but previous anti-female barriers in the higher-status profession of doctors (and other things they could have done).
My friends who are nurses wanted to be nurses, they didn't want to go medical school. They didn't want to wait to make money until their 30's, they considered career paths in relation to having a family. As long as they had the option, I don't see why forcing outcome is important here.
As for helping men into nursing, if diversity is good in one field its probably helpful in another. Men might want a male nurse who can emphasize with male concerns. Being a woman, I'm just taking guesses here, like prostate issues, balding, infertility, and whatever else.
Maybe we should help men get into fields like nursing and teaching. So boys and girls both have role models in lots of fields.
I get the historical context, but I don't think forcing an over reaction in the other direction is better. I think we all benefit from choices and freedom.
I'm all for men going into nursing. You can work on shifting that ratio if you like. But I'm not personally going to work on that because I don't think it is a result of oppression in the same way that keeping women out of medicine was.
I'm also fine with a little bit of what looks like overreaction in the moment, because that's how we find out where the balance is. People thought Title IX was an overreaction at the time, too.
The real issue isn't color, or gender. Its Class.
but why do you think the over reaction is ok, which punishes innocent people not the people who created the system.
again two wrongs don't make a right, all it does is continue a negative cycle.
Loss of privilege feels is definitely experienced as loss, so I can see why people would see it as punishment. Note all the rich people who cry rivers over having to pay their fair share or taxes. But reducing injustice is not punishment.
Two wrongs don't make a right. But allowing a harmful system to persevere is what continues the negative cycle.
If you decline to have sympathy for other downtrodden people, I believe that's your problem, and I don't think blaming me will help.