I openly admit that the technical definitions are often how I imagined the material intuitively when the material was taught in school. But first when studying mathematics these definitions occured. I really wish that calculus (and the rest of mathematics) would be taught in a much more abstract way in school - it really makes understanding the material much easier since the "intuitive" definitions suffer a lot from being leaky abstractions (and mathematics is all about banging to the boundaries of the definitions until they move or fall down).