Ever tried to philosophize about unfix-able mindbugs (aka retardations) that every human (including those discussing these) have, in a bar with another smart guy/girl? If you are smart you will perceive reality, and many prefer to not do so. For them reality is a insult, and the truth can be voted for with fists and not arguments. And if the arguments are stronger, they would punch Darwin in the face to remain ignorant. They want the benefits of science, but they don't want to really go on the full intellectual adventure, with all its insults, its discoverys of weak spots and its inherent uncertainty. You are alone then, because you are alone. You can not friend with someone who can not understand your situation. If you befriend a dog, the dog sets the limits of understanding to which this relationship can grow. The dog will not speculate on quantum physics with you. Well not today. Well not today in every part of the world that is not the valley. I'm fairly certain. In a way, with all that awesome shared, you have equals. And there obsession, and dedication, is at least a relationship. Not in person. But its not lonely.