Same problem. 30 inch waist, but my thighs are bursting out of 30 inch pants. I typically buy 32 inch and have them taken in for $6 at the dry cleaner.
I generally don't find anything larger than 36" waist where I am and that's already got room to spare at the actual waist. Of course leg length is also an issue - anything bigger than 34/36 and you must have 2m legs, right? And then adjustment prices are high too :S