>"Statistical significance has NOTHING to do with magnitude of difference!"
Here is the equation for a t-statistic (used for the common t-test):
d=mean(a)-mean(b)
s=sqrt(var(a) + var(b))/sqrt(n)
t=d/s
I see the magnitude of difference (d) right in the numerator. The t-value is then compared to the t-distribution to get the tail probability.