It's clear that you don't play chess. Anyone who does understands from experience why "increasing your piece count" (which is a backwards and inaccurate way to put it) is the most important and reliable path to victory ... of course it's not always the right thing, but other things being equal, winning material is advantageous. Asking why gaining material advantage is "privileged" is like asking why a weightlifter "privileges" gaining strength, or why a general "privileges" winning battles or destroying supply lines. It's not "because they learned to", it's because "duh, that's obvious".
And the claim that there would be no variation in moves between players if moves were objectively good is absurd nonsense. Just because not everyone plays the best move, that doesn't mean it's not the best move. Of course different players apply different heuristics -- some players are better than others. But in the vast majority of positions, all grandmasters will, given enough time for analysis, agree on the best move or a small number of equally good best moves. When there are multiple best moves, different grandmasters will choose different ones depending on their style, familiarity, opponents, and objectives (tournament players play differently when all they need is a draw than when they need to win).
Your previous comments, about "postrationalization", are also nonsense. Certainly GMs play intuitively in blitz games, but when taking their time they can always say why a move is better -- and they do just that in postgame analyses, many of which can be seen online. The explanations are given in terms of the major strategic factors of time, space, and material, or other factors such as pawn structure and piece coordination, or in terms of tactical maneuvers that achieve advantages in those factors ... or that result in checkmate (which can be viewed as infinite material gain, and many chess playing programs model it as such).
But chessplaying programs aren't goal driven. They evaluate such factors when they statically analyze a position, but they evaluate millions of positions and compare the evaluations and bubble these evaluations up the game tree, resulting in a single score. That score does not and cannot indicate why the final choice is better than others. Thus
"It doesn't seem too difficult to have an AI let you know which other strong moves it rejected, and to dig into its forecasts for how those moves play out compared to the chosen move to tell you why it makes particular scenarios more likely."
is just facile nonsense grounded in ignorance ... of course it can let you know which other strong moves were rejected, but it cannot even begin to tell you why.
"But that would just be postrationalization too... "
You keep using that word, in completely wrong fashion. The computer's analysis is entirely done before it makes the move, so there's nothing "post" about it. And it makes moves for reasons, not "rationalizations". Perhaps some day there will be AIs that have some need to justify their behavior, but the notion does not apply to transparent, mechanistic decision making algorithms.